Christian Singles

Join Our Mailing List! Get Our FREE God-Honouring, Christian Singles Dating Tips Newsletter and Learn How to Meet Like-Minded Christian Singles

Archive for August, 2010

PostHeaderIcon Does the Church have ANY real advice for the single (I.E. unmarried, NOT dating) Christian ?

When I hear all these grown-ups talking about how fornication, masturbation and premarital sex are all sins no matter what; I sometimes wonder if the people who preach those things are Christians who never had a problem getting a date during adolescence and married in their early 20’s … and therefore never felt true sexual frustration.

I also wonder if these people think of "single" as only unmarried. The so-called ’single christian’ advices are usually aimed at people who are already dating.

But do they ever stop to think about the Christian who simply has not dated ?

What is their advice for these people ? Just wait ? It will happen eventually.

Well, I will tell you what. The only thing "absolutely not masturbating" while one remains completely single causes is – jealousy.

And In my mind, jealousy is a more dangerous sin than all others combined.

I want to hear you. What do you say to the young adult Christian, who has not been blessed with marriage or a dating partner ?
Here’s simple prayer :

"Lord help me to make a good impression of myself when I meet new people"

Every time I find myself in a new situation with new people I pray for this. Yet the only thing i succeed in is embarrassing myself.

I cannot go straight from being single to being married. I know that I have to date first.

All I wish from the Lord is that he help me not to make such a bad impression of myself when i meet new people (especially new women).

It is a rather simple prayer :-(

I cannot even give younger teens advice, because I have no experience from which to draw it from.

Don’t be a hypocrite like them who preach.
Don’t be a snob.
Respect other people’s belief in God.
Don’t allow religion to tamper with your judgments.

PostHeaderIcon What are the best christian romance fiction books?

Same as tittle

Laura Jensen Walker – ‘Getaway Girls’
Daring Chloe
Turning the Paige
Becca by the Book

Eryan Mangum
Miss Match
ReMatch
MatchPoint

Sandra Byrd
Let Them Eat Cake
Bon Appetit
Piece de Resistance