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What is the overall view of Christian Internet dating?
It has now become one of the most popular and convenient ways for christians of this generation to meet and date. However is it right? is it safe? Can we really meet the partner God intends for us or are we open to being conned? I would love to hear your views and experiences…
I dated a guy that was recently divorced, his life was a mess and was looking for a new wife or perhaps just an affair come to think of it! I hate to think it but the outcome would suggest that was so! I fell in love with him and his little 8 yr old daughter and hoped it would work as I became so attached to her. It was a disaster. People need to be 100% honest about who they are, what they are and what they want, then internet dating may stand a remote chance of actually working! When someone says they are a christian, remember it is only a word, like any other one. Should you just trust a word alone? Or the actions and deeds of that person? Peoples feelings are not to be play around with. I believe that dating sites are as good as the person using them. You have to pray that when someone has the option of telling you the truth in their profile, that they chose that option!

I know several people who have tried this type of dating. However, here’s the problem: Any type of long distance dating does not allow us to see the real person and what they’re really like. It’s easy to put on a pretense online, but seeing someone interact with others shows their true self. Until you meet the person, you never know who they really are. I know of someone who is anti-Christian (someone the Bible would call an apostate) who is on a Christian online dating service. He is apparently trying to lure some away from the faith. Internet dating is very dangerous. Don’t do it.

Question on dating and a person’s beliefs on Christian theology?
I have been dating a born-again Christian for about 5 months now (I am a born-again Christian also). We have since the start of the relationship questioned each other’s beliefs to make sure we were on the same page and not dating each other in vain. All along it seemed we agreed on the basics, such as how to become a Christian, what it means to be a Christian, the importance of church, and also major moral issues. Now we have figured out that we disagree on the more in-depth issues such as speaking in tongues, prophecy, modern-day miracles and a few other things. How important is it that a couple agree on EVERYTHING that has to do with their Christian beliefs? I would really hate this issue to break me and my boyfriend apart.

The level of importance is what you put on it. In the scheme of things, how important is it to agree on speaking in tongues? If you wait until someone agrees 100% with you on everything in your Christian beliefs, you may find that you’re not compatible in other things. It’s all about priorities.

I am trying to find a good devotional book that is really tests and grows our relationship together and with God and challenges us to seek Him more. I can find lots for married and engaged couples, however were not quite there yet.

Any help here would be great. Thanks!

A Good Deep and Challenging Devotional Book for a Dating/Courting Christian Couple by Father Ted Crilly

You can get it on Amazon.

What is the largest and best christian dating site ?
THANK YOU !!

http://christian-personals.us

my boyfriend is a catholic and he tells me that unless i change to his religion he will not marry me. in as much as i love him, am just not about leave my religion.

Just keep telling him things such as,Catholics are idolaters,Catholics worship Mary, Catholics do this and this and this etc,etc,etc, and he will either jump of a building or simply run off and either way you are free!

I’ve been on 2 dates now with this wonderful Christian Girl, and we are planning our 3rd date for next week sometime.

I’m wondering if pastors offer couseling for dating couples. I know their is premarital counseling. Has anyone heard/ or had counsel while dating?

I am a pastor and yes it is actually preferred. Just like taking care of a car before it breaks down is A LOT cheaper than if disaster strikes. More often than not a third party can offer insight that will take your relationship to the next level.

Find a pastor you BOTH can trust and see what he/she says. Hope it works out for you!

I’m a new Christian went on a 2nd date with a woman that is on her way to becoming born again. The date was to be dinner and a movie. When I picked her up she told me she already ate and was not in the mood for a movie so we went and played a few games of pool instead.
For starters SEX is not even a issue, I have taken a vow of abstance.

Hold sex until marriage

We were talking about it in our womens fellowship this month and thought it would be a bit of fun.

Birmingham,England or Birmingham,Alabama

Why not just gate crash one that’s already there

I have been dating my girlfriend for six moths now. I vaguely remember hearing from somewhere that as a Christian in the dating world, it is important to know if the person your dating is a virgin or not. (I could be COMPLETELY wrong on this) I have no intentions of having any sexual relation until i am married but still, is this important to know? And if it is – how would i go about finding out? Do i just bluntly ask? I try to include God in everything i do which would include dating and i merely want to do what’s right. Thank you, and God bless.

How can you have been with someone for 6 months and not know if she is a virgin? You need to ask her, I doubt she would mind…